Do you know the meaning of ABUSE?

Everyone knows what a picture of abuse looks like. Or at least they do. They all think that being "abusive" to a person is to torment that person. Be it physical, verbal, or sometimes even psychological.

Have you ever stopped to think that sometimes being NICE to a person can be a form of psychological torment as well? Just imagine. you want to have chicken soup for dinner (which, by the way, you have told him). He goes to the supermarket, ad happily goes about buying herbs, saying that he wants to cook roasted chicken and potatoes. YOu just go "huh...". Then he puts on a gloomy face, goes around the aisles putting back all that he has taken, and go get the stuff needed to cook chicken soup.

Have you gotten what you want? Yes.

Are you happy? No. For the rest of the day, it would seem as though you OWE it to him because he has "sacrificed" his roasted chickn for your stupid soup. (As if the alternative cannot be for both the dishes to be prepared together for dinner).

Sometimes, being nice to a person can constitute a form of mental torment to the person as well. Stop to think.

Fuck. My life sucks.